The best article I’ve ever read about this. I just sent it to a bunch of close friends to help explain ME. Will also send to my therapist who doesn’t grasp this at all.
Thank you thank you for shedding light on this brutal topic. You just helped me immensely.
This describes a toxic friendship I had perfectly. She even tried to literally parent me despite only being a year older than me. But no matter how hard I tried, I was never going to be better than drugs, and certainly never good enough for her. I wish I’d been in a place to search for these kinds of resources sooner. If you found this that means you’ve probably seen enough to know you need to get out.
This makes so much sense I have been blaming myself for years and feel really stupid that I still love my ex even after 7 years of leaving the relationship and can't move on although he has years ago .
Oh man I'm in trouble. But I will read your article and look up all sources mentioned. I heard about coersive control and abuse only a couple of days ago. Do you have some hints on books we should read?
I have been in a 7yr long emotionally abusive relationship. I found this because like the topic at hand, I am missing my abuser after going no contact. This was very validating to read as this is what I've learned to remind myself daily. You couldn't have written this any better. Thank you.
Why Do I Miss My Abuser?
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You just saved me & my 4 children, 9 months, 7, 11, 17. A million billion thank you's for sharing this.
The best article I’ve ever read about this. I just sent it to a bunch of close friends to help explain ME. Will also send to my therapist who doesn’t grasp this at all.
Thank you thank you for shedding light on this brutal topic. You just helped me immensely.
This is so amazing I thank you so much for writing it, I really needed to hear it.
An excellent article, how did you get so smart?
This describes a toxic friendship I had perfectly. She even tried to literally parent me despite only being a year older than me. But no matter how hard I tried, I was never going to be better than drugs, and certainly never good enough for her. I wish I’d been in a place to search for these kinds of resources sooner. If you found this that means you’ve probably seen enough to know you need to get out.
This is helping me right now as I’m sitting bruised up bleeding wanting to return to him. Thank you. 💔
thank you so much for writing this.
This makes so much sense I have been blaming myself for years and feel really stupid that I still love my ex even after 7 years of leaving the relationship and can't move on although he has years ago .
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Oh man I'm in trouble. But I will read your article and look up all sources mentioned. I heard about coersive control and abuse only a couple of days ago. Do you have some hints on books we should read?
Wow,reading this article now love it is there a book of this like this article?
Thankyou 💕👄💋
This is a fabulous article. Thank you!
I like this article. It was filled with information that I have and will apply to my life. Thank you!
I have been in a 7yr long emotionally abusive relationship. I found this because like the topic at hand, I am missing my abuser after going no contact. This was very validating to read as this is what I've learned to remind myself daily. You couldn't have written this any better. Thank you.